Day 38, February 1

"Sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory."

Today is my mom's birthday. She would have been 80 years old today had we not lost her unexpectedly last May. My mother was a gentle, kind, compassionate, loving person. I really, really miss her!

I'm thankful that my mom and I lived close to each other and we were able to spend a lot of good, quality time together. In the months before she passed away, my sisters and I had two different "girls days" with her and several of us got together on Mother's Day. My mom and I got along really well, and I have no regrets about our relationship. I loved her with all my heart and I couldn't have asked for a better mother!

Something I've given thought to since starting this mindful living blog and since she passed away, are the times when I stopped by her house and rushed in and out, or when I was on my phone or distracted when with her. Of course she completely understood and never complained if I was busy or in a hurry. Oh but what I wouldn't give for more moments with her, and I promise she would have my undivided attention.

I just want to say to my readers, be present when you are with your loved ones. Life can change in an instant.

Happy Birthday Mom!